We all know that we tend to say rubbish, when we are fuming with anger and full of emotions. Emotions have no logic and must be ruled and disciplined by the mind and will.
When we are angry, it is better for us to be silent and say nothing, because we will most likely say wrong things, and things that we will later live to regret, and maybe never be able to erase from the other persons mind.
Words have broken up marriages and great relationships. There are some words, that some people never forget when you say them to them. They may forgive you, but those words linger and inhabit their souls, and remembering those words torment, torture and cause them pain until the Lord heals their minds. We just need to be careful with words, especially when we are angry.
Words can be very harmful, hurtful and damaging. Once spoken, it is difficult to reverse them or take them back. It is better for us to form a habit of processing our anger.
When you are angry, take time to process and work through your anger, and get your points streamlined and organized. Then, later talk calmly to the person who is the source of the anger, and articulately communicate and resolve the conflict. However, never ignore the conflict.
But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment (Matthew 5:22 NKJV)
Most Christians have not understood the concept of spiritual judgement from God. Judgement begins in the house of God and God is not weak. Those who are afraid of the devil and demons struggle to grasp the true meaning of the sovereignty and supremacy of God.
We must not let ourselves fall into divine judgement – the ones that our ancestors handed down to us is burden enough and we keep seeking the face of God for restoration. Why live a careless and irresponsible Christian life? However, if you fall into sin, be quick to repent and if you fall into judgement, ask for mercy. Our God is merciful and gracious but mercy must not be abused.
If you are always angry and bitter with others, full of jealousy and envy, you are angry without a cause because Jesus died for all of us despite our flaws and weaknesses.
Do not be angry and never go to sleep with anger in your heart. It is natural to get angry but do not cling to that anger or pamper it. Do not let it linger. That can hinder your prayers and attract judgement. Anger puts you in danger of God’s judgment, so it is better to get rid of it, than hold unto it till you experience the fiery judgement of God. After Judgement, comes confusion and you might begin to think that your problem is from the devil or witches but the devil does not have the power of judgement or supremacy over your will.
Man is the problem of man that is why God executes judgement.