Marriage and Destiny

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Marriage is about destiny – partnership to fulfill destiny. It is possible to marry someone that will hinder ur destiny because you are not aligned to each other spiritually.

Do not allow lust, passion and emotion to decide who u will marry. Let the Spirit, and your intelligence rule you and lead you into marriage.

Walk in the Spirit and u will not fulfil the lust of the flesh.

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Purity All Around

Visions, Revelations and Messages

Purity All Around

In this vision, I was in a gathering and I saw a girl. She was about sixteen years old and was putting on white. Then I ministered to her according to what the Lord showed me. I said to her, “I can see purity all around you. When I look at you, all I can see is purity.” I continued, “the Lord said I should tell you that the Holy Spirit will go into your belly like a ball of fire. You will manifest Him.” I also told her about her future husband and the man she will marry.


Beloved, where is your white garment? Have you lost it or have you forgotten that you need to constantly put it on? The truth is that there is no short to the things of the Spirit. The Holy Spirit loves purity regardless of all the false doctrines and confusion flying around, in the Church. If you have everything and you do not have purity, you have nothing

Holy Spirit

The Holy Spirit fills up sanctified vessels of honor. He loves clean temples. If the temple of your heart or spirit is unclean or defiled, he will not fill it up. He is there, He is with you but you will not feel His manifest presence. If you truly care, if you truly want and desire Him, crave purity and crave Him. He is just a heartbeat away. If you are thirsty for the living water that flows from the throne of grace, pray to Him to cleanse you, and make you a vessel of honor by His awesome great grace. His grace is always available and He is not stingy. Desire purity and the Lord will cleanse you beyond your wildest imagination.


I have noticed that most of the young girls that the Lord takes me in visions, to minster to have prophesies about their future husbands. I do not know why but I have come to realize that the Lord loves marriage. Now, coming from a place where I wanted to be a nun, and made to believe that being single is a superior, better and exalted way of serving God – my human logic has been overwritten by God’s own logic. He is so compassionate and He understands the struggles of single women and men.

A lot of single women are exploited and abused because they have no physical protection. They have no one to fight for them, especially, if they are financially disadvantaged. Beloved, if you are a young and single woman, take your life and future seriously – pray fervently for your own husband as you walk in God’s ways, and God our comforter, will comfort you by blessing you with a caring, God fearing man. If you are older – also pray fervently for a husband.

I focused on the young women because this vision was about a young girl. It is better to start early to desire a home of your own. A home is not a house. A home is a family. If you are not able to have kids, adopt, as you exploit the various options of medical science. Believe me, loneliness is not good and it attracts depression. It is definitely not good for man to be alone.

God settles the lonely in families; He leads the prisoners out to prosperity, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land. Psalm 68:6 Berea Study Bible

God settles the solitary in a home; he leads out the prisoners to prosperity, but the rebellious dwell in a parched land. Psalm 68:6 ESV

He settles the childless woman in her home as a happy mother of children. Praise the LORD. Psalm 113:9 NIV

He gives the childless woman a family, making her a happy mother. Praise the LORD! Psalm 113:9 New Living Translation

Overall, marriage is good. The Lord said to me sometime ago, “a blessed woman, is a woman that hears everyday, that she is loved.” Men, express your love daily and constantly to your wives. Give them emotional comfort and support. Some people think that it does not matter, but God thinks and knows that it matters. Never take love for granted – be like God and imitate Christ. Love your wives the way that Christ loves the Church.

May great grace be upon us in Jesus name.

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The One You Have Now Is Not Your Husband

For you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. (John 4:18 ESV)


So many women have had

Many husbands

And the one they have now

Is not their husband



They have lived with men

That did not marry them

Hoping the man would marry them

And the men did not.

After the first failure or mistake,

They move to another man

Trying their luck

Until it becomes a vicious cycle

Of abuse

As men take advantage of their weakness

And desperation.


Jesus did not condemn her,

He was compassionate towards her

As he knew how desperately she was seeking happiness

He then asked her to seek for the real person

The Living Water – the Holy Spirit,

Precious gift of God.


This woman was obviously

Living with a man

And playing wife to him


He was not her husband


Jesus said,

“You have had five husbands

And the husband you

Have now is not

Your husband.”


So Jesus is effectively

Telling her that

The husband she had

Is not her husband


Jesus called him her husband

Yet, acknowledged

That he was not her real husband


It is very possible

To live with, put on the wifely garment

and play perfect wife to a man who

Secretly does not wish to marry us.

It is also possible to

Marry someone who is not our

Husband or wife.


So many people are living with

People that are not their spouses

And find themselves in God’s

Permissive will – not His perfect will.


In this woman’s case

She was probably living

With a man she wasn’t married to

Not necessarily married to a man

That is against God’s will for her life


We must be very careful

Because wrong husband or wife

Will certainly mean

Unfulfilled destiny

Because our real spouse

Is the one sent from above

To help us fulfill destiny.

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