DO NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH PEOPLE
Stop auditioning for the role of “The Healer” in a man’s life or a woman’s life. A relationship or marriage is not meant to be a parenting environment.
Do not tolerate bad behaviour and disrespect in relationships from emotionally unavailable people. If someone is emotionally unavailable, they have no business entering into relationships.
When someone knows they are emotionally unavailable and enters into a relationship with you, unwilling to love you or put in the effort necessary for that relationship to work, they are being cruel, selfish, and abusive. Do not tolerate it. Release them to stay in their unavailable corner without you in it. You are bigger and better than that. You deserve better.
Practice emotional boundaries and self-respect in relationships.
• You are not responsible for fixing someone’s emotional wounds.
• Compassion does not require self-sacrifice.
• If someone avoids commitment, that is their issue — not your assignment.
• Your responsibility is self-honor and wise stewardship of your time.
• Waiting for someone to change wastes life. Time is a very expensive currency.
• Some people will give you breadcrumbs in love and affection and create confusion by giving small hope while staying unavailable.
• You should release them and move forward.
Stop trying to rescue emotionally unavailable people.
Agreement and willingness are required for a relationship.
“Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” — Amos chapter three
Healthy relationships require:
• mutual effort
• shared direction
• willingness to love
• emotional availability
Where these are absent, unity cannot form.
Protect your time, energy, and dignity.
Let God handle them. Move on.
God is the only healer.
May God give you the grace to always protect your emotional and mental well-being, in Jesus name, amen.
May God give you wisdom in relationships,
strength to guard your heart,
clarity to set healthy boundaries,
and peace in every connection,
in Jesus’ name, amen.
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