Get Rid Of Meaningless Relationships
Hello, welcome to another message. So I’m gonna be sharing a revelation that the Lord gave to me some time ago.
So in this one, the Lord spoke to me and said, “Meaningless relationships drain you.” Then He continued. He said “meaning,” because I was thinking to myself, “Meaning?” you know, just trying to process what He was saying. Then He continued and explained it further to me. He said, “Meaningless relationships are relationships devoid of love.”
Then that was it.
So now I’m gonna take this because several times the Lord has been persistently talking to me about relationships that are not okay, about wrong relationships, about me making sure that I’m not in them. And by relationship, I mean friends, people around you, even people that are in your household, or people that work for you — basically the people that you interact with, the people that you have any form of relationship with.
Of course, the biggest relationships, the closest ones, are the ones between husband and wife, father and children, siblings, and all that. But this applies to every form of relationship.
Now what He’s saying is relationships devoid of love drain you.
So what does that mean?
I mean, this might look self-explanatory, but a lot of people are walking wrongly. A lot of people are in relationships where the people they have relationships with do not love them. Those people might be friends or might even be closer to them than friends, but they do not love them. They have shown them in one way or the other that they hate them. They have shown them in one way or the other that they are capable of harming them physically, psychologically, and spiritually.
Unfortunately, that’s what happens.
That’s why there’s something called domestic violence. That’s why there’s something called abuse. A lot of people are in abusive relationships, and somehow they think they are trapped in those abusive relationships, and they stay there, not knowing that the longer they stay in an abusive relationship, the more they are depleting the life juice in them.
Every human being has a glory. Your spirit contains your life, your life’s blood, and fragrance. Just like Christ Himself — Christ’s Spirit has His life and His fragrance, and it is that Spirit, that life’s fragrance, that actually cleanses us and heals us. That’s the blood of Jesus.
So your own life’s fragrance, your glory, your virtue, your innermost being — that’s also your blood.
So when you are in an abusive relationship, your life blood is going to be depleted. You’re going to be drained. Some people hear “drained of energy” and think it’s just a figure of speech, but you are really being drained inwardly. Your spirit is actually being drained. Your blood is leaving you spiritually. You’re shedding your essence spiritually because you’re in abusive relationships — relationships where people do not love you, where people cause you constant pain and agony.
So that’s it.
What I want to talk to you about today is this: apply this to your life. Get rid of meaningless relationships. Learn how to form relationships that build you up. Learn how to be with people that love you, that promote you, that build you up — not people that talk down on you, gossip about you, envy you, are jealous of you, can cause you harm, steal from you — just evil people. They are not good for you.
So you need to get rid of those kinds of things from your life.
The first point that I’m gonna take now is: never be with people that hate you.
The Lord spoke that to me some years ago. He said to me, “Never be with people that hate you,” because He’s teaching me how to walk. Those things affect you. If you’re not walking in those principles, you’re not going to fulfill your destiny. You’re going to be sick. It’s going to affect you negatively.
So the Lord is giving me those principles so that they will help me, so that I can be a better person, a better version of myself. And it’s a principle that you need to apply.
Even psychology supports this principle. The Lord is Lord over everything. Psychology is a science, and even the medical sciences — everything is under the Lordship of Christ. Christ is the greatest psychologist. That’s why the Bible is the greatest book on earth. Jesus Himself is everything — physician, architect, accountant, author, designer, artist. God is everything.
So do not take a field and think that it is independent of God.
Now this wisdom key is going to help your life and enrich your life.
The Lord spoke to me and said:
“I surrounded Myself with people who loved Me. I had the twelve apostles, and I had My inner circle.”
Now we’re going to take a scripture:
Gospel of Matthew 17:1–3:
“After six days Jesus took with Him Peter, James, and John the brother of James, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. There He was transfigured before them; His face shone like the sun, and His clothes became as white as the light. Just then there appeared before them Moses and Elijah, talking with Jesus.”
So He took Peter, James, and John. Those were His inner circle.
That’s what the Lord spoke to me about. These were people that loved Him. Remember that John is called the disciple whom Jesus loved. There was great love between Jesus and John.
There’s a reason love is the greatest power and force on this earth. There is nothing that beats love.
Love is an aura that protects.
When someone hates you, that person’s spirit will be fighting you. It’s not physical — you won’t see it. Even the person that hates you might not see it. But spiritually, that person’s spirit will be causing you harm.
That’s why the Bible says don’t be angry, and if you’re angry, don’t let that anger go over into the next day. When you’re angry, your spirit can do damage spiritually.
So we need to protect our life energy, our life source. We need to be careful about what we do with our spirit because God has given us a certain level of power.
People that love you are your protection.
You need to be intimate only with people that love you. It’s not everybody that you should bring into your personal space. Anybody that you are intimate with has access to your life.
That’s why the Lord taught me this principle for a long time until I finally understood it.
Before, I used to think it didn’t matter. I could be friends with anyone. But the Lord corrected me.
Sometimes you can know that somebody is not a genuine friend. On the surface they look genuine, but inwardly they are not okay. The Lord taught me that once you know someone is not okay, regardless of how they present themselves, you need wisdom.
Some people are pretenders. Some people are false friends.
That’s why you need discernment.
If you find yourself constantly surrounded by people who do not love you, pray to God to separate you from such people and bring genuine people into your life.
Do not be in close intimate relationships with people who do not wish you well — people who envy you, are jealous of you, or can harm you.
Learn to be with people who love you.
Now this also applies to husband-and-wife relationships and family relationships. If people do not love you and are harming you, hatred is abuse. Hatred can kill.
Pray for them, but separate yourself from abuse.
Look at the case of David and Saul. When Saul hated David, David fled. He did not stay there to die.
Do not stay in a place that will destroy your destiny.
Even Hagar fled from Sarah when the environment became hostile.
If you are in a hostile environment, especially one that harms you psychologically or physically, seek help and pray for separation from that environment.
Another point is this:
The only unclean person around Jesus betrayed Him.
Judas Iscariot was close to Jesus, yet he betrayed Him.
False friends gather information to destroy people. That’s why you must be careful about who has close access to your life.
Recognize the difference between true love and fake love.
Love is from God. Hatred is from the enemy.
God uses people who genuinely love you to bless, strengthen, and protect your life. That’s why healthy relationships matter. That’s why fellowship matters.
The conclusion is this:
Learn how to walk with people who love you.
Meaningless relationships drain you. Relationships devoid of love are dead relationships. The purpose of every relationship is love, and when love is absent and hatred is present, that relationship has already died.
Defeat the enemy with wisdom, the Word of God, and the power of the Holy Spirit.
I’m gonna pray for you now.
I pray that the Lord Himself gives you the wisdom to always walk with people that love you. I pray that people who do not have love for you do not come around you. May the Lord protect you. May He give you good friends. May He lead you from victory to victory. May the Lord Himself be like a wall of fire around you to protect you. May He guide you and comfort you. I decree victory and favor upon your life. May the grace of God be upon you. May the Lord Himself be your Shepherd. May the Lord bless you and keep you.
In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.
Remain blessed. Happy day.
Prayer For Divine Favour, Open Doors & Victory Prayer – Laura Bon
Prayer For Divine Favour, Open Doors & Victory Prayer – Laura Bon
God Hears The Prayers Of The Righteous - All About Prayers
God Hears The Prayers Of The Righteous - All About Prayers
Prayer For Divine Favour, Open Doors & Victory Prayer – Laura Bon
May God baptise you with His fire and power for great exploits, in Jesus name, amen.
If you want to become God's untouchable, be persistent in prayer and wake up at midnight to pray.
Some witches get up at midnight to invoke the spirits of believers they want to cast spells and demons on. But many believers do not want to be spiritually disciplined and pray at midnight.
Acts 16 verse 25 says, but at midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God.
A lot of believers do not want to pay the price in Bible meditation, prayer and praise to be filled with God's word and power.
A lot of believers have thrown away their spiritual armor and weapons.
Some believers are so spiritually lazy, undisciplined, docile, and lukewarm that it is baffling.
Ignorant believers feed Satan and his demons and witches through ignorance, scantiness of the word of God and stubbornness. They also feed them through faithlessness, ingratitude, prayerlessness, and carelessness.
They ignorantly think that witches and demons are their problems, yet the problem is within them. The solution is within them. The Kingdom of God is within them.
Luke 17 verse 21 says, the kingdom of God is within you.
You are not helpless. You are not a spiritual orphan because you have the Holy Spirit, the mighty man of war.
Jesus has defeated death. Revelation 1 verse 18 says that Jesus has the keys of Hades and of Death.
All power belongs to Jesus, and nothing can happen without God's permission. It is better to submit completely to God by paying the price than to constantly blame witches, demons and Satan.
Adam blamed Eve. Eve blamed Satan. Satan did not blame anyone because he knew that he did his job successfully.
His job was to test them, and their job was to obey God and successfully resist him. They failed their spiritual tests and examinations.
Jesus passed all his spiritual tests, trials and examinations.
Hebrews 4 verse 15 says that Jesus was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.
Make up your mind to pass all your spiritual tests, examinations and trials and win Satan.
Adam and Eve failed their spiritual test, examination and trial of faith and loyalty to God. God judged Adam and Eve.
Satan still has the same job of testing and trying human loyalty to God. He tested righteous, blameless Job, and Job passed all his spiritual examinations. Satan did not win righteous, blameless Job.
Job suffered so much when his faith was being tested, but he never accused God.
Job 1 verse 22 says, in all this Job did not sin nor charge God with wrong.
Learn how to fight spiritual war and stop shifting the blame to Satan and his witches and demons.
They are doing their job. It's a battle that God has commanded you to win, so fight by the rules and win. It is a battle between life and death, light and darkness.
But know that Jesus has defeated death for you. He died so that you can have life, power and grace in all its fullness.
Second Timothy 2 verse 5 says, if anyone competes in athletics, he is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules.
If you begin to blame Satan and witches, you are indirectly saying that you don't want to fight the spiritual battle.
You must make up your mind to win the battle. You can trample the powers of witches and demons if you pay the price.
Luke 10 verse 19 says, behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy.
Rise up! Wake up, great men and women of valor! Pick up all the weapons and armor of our warfare and fight! Stop sleeping spiritually.
Do not be a runaway soldier.
Stop being unconscious spiritually. Be awake in Christ. Be filled with God's word and Spirit.
Crave spiritual gifts. Put on the garment of fire and power. Be filled with all the fruit of the Holy Spirit. Be led by the voice and direction of the Holy Spirit.
Stop resisting and ignoring the Holy Spirit with your spiritual laziness, stubbornness, cowardice, and indiscipline. Submit completely to the Holy Spirit.
Surrender all to Jesus. Cast all your burdens and cares upon the Lord.
First Peter 5 verse 7 says, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.
Humbly bow before the Lord and tell Him to equip you and teach your fingers how to fight and make war spiritually.
Psalm 144 verse 1 says, blessed be the Lord my Rock, who trains my hands for war, and my fingers for battle.
Ask for His help and stop depending on your flesh.
Power is your birthright. Wake up and start putting on the power and fire of God and demons will scream and run away from you.
Witches will fear and respect the fire of God on you because they cannot withstand the fire of God.
May great grace be upon you, in Jesus name, amen.
May God make you an untouchable, in Jesus make, amen.
Receive fire and power for complete protection, in Jesus name, amen.
May God’s great power strengthen you to cut off every association that serves as a point of contact with the gates of hell, in Jesus name.
May God reveal to you the secrets of His Word and teach you how to walk continually in His divine protection and power, in Jesus name.
Win Satan by getting rid of points of contact with the gates of hell.
Point of contact is the big secret that Satan has hidden from believers.
Communication, contact, and association are the gateways that demonic people and witches use to get access to believers.
Talking, chatting and having phone calls with demonic people are demonic gateways and portals. Watching demonic people and celebrities and looking at pictures of demonic celebrities are also demonic gateways and portals.
Those celebrities know it. That is the way they obtain energy and power. That is why they love to be scantily clothed.
Watching demonic people, talking, chatting, and having unequally yoked friendships with demonic people is like falling into a pit and walking into the gates of hell.
Second Corinthians 6 verse 14 says, do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what communion has light with darkness?
If you are hungry for complete deliverance and power, cut off the demonic gates, links, points of contact and doors.
No contact is your biblical instruction and medicine.
Be watchful, be vigilant, be full of God's Word, and hear the voice and direction of the Holy Spirit.
If you do not understand and know God's secrets and deliverance secrets, you will give Satan the upper hand and space.
The Word of God reveals God's secrets.
Second Corinthians 2 verse 11 says, lest Satan should take advantage of us; for we are not ignorant of his devices.
God has given you complete redemption and deliverance. But you can unconsciously and ignorantly give away parts of the liberty and freedom that Christ purchased for you with His blood.
Galatians 5 verse 1 says, stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free.
Cling to your freedom and liberty.
You are not helpless. You have control. You have the authority.
Luke 10 verse 19 says that Jesus gave His disciples authority over all the power of the enemy.
But if you do not know how to apply that authority and control, you will be controlled by Satan and his witches and demons.
Satan, demons, and witches are not the problem. Your inability to know and apply God's secrets and the fullness of God's Word is the problem. Deception is the problem.
Deception and lies are their highest weapon.
To resist the devil is to reject his lies, tricks and deception.
May God show you His secrets.
May the Holy Spirit fill you with light and lead you into all the truth that sets you completely free, in Jesus name, amen.
May God visit you mightily and crown you with His deliverance and power.
There is no sickness, affliction or spell that the Holy Ghost fire and the blood of Jesus cannot destroy.
But the question is: are you willing to pay the price and pray with fervent, stubborn, persistent, fierce faith?
Master how to beg God for grace, ability, mercy and power. Don't be proud.
If you don't ask for the power of God, it means that you are proud and self-dependent. You have not learned the lesson that your flesh cannot save you.
Recognizing your need for the Holy Spirit is humility.
Hebrews 4 verse 16 says, come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Matthew 15 verse 22 says that a Canaanite woman came crying, Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David. My daughter is severely oppressed by a demon.
And the woman begged Jesus for the children's crumbs. And Jesus rewarded her faith. Nothing could discourage her from obtaining deliverance for her child.
James 5 verse 16 says that the prayer of a righteous man is very powerful and effective.
Pray. Pray!
Fill your heart with the fullness of the word of God, faith and the complete armour of God. And pray like you have never prayed before.
Believe in the goodness, mercy, and love of God and pray fervently without giving up, and you will experience mercy from the throne of grace.
Be very very stubborn about meditating on the word of God, prayer and seeking God's presence. That is your only protection and medicine for complete deliverance every day.
Stop using your prayer time to play and watch nonsense on social media. Stop watching immoral things that open demonic gateways and pollute your spirit.
Be very serious about spiritual power. Power is taken by force, not by carelessness, irresponsibility, recklessness and laziness.
Matthew 11 verse 12 says, the kingdom of heaven suffers violence, and the violent take it by force.
Spiritual power is not for lazy people.
Cry out to God from the bottom of your heart.
Cry out to God persistently day and night like the persistent widow, and don't give up.
Luke 18 verse 7 says, shall God not avenge His own elect who cry out day and night to Him?
Cry for the highest level of God's power and protection. Cry to God for His fire. You need fire. You were born for fire and power, not demonic oppression.
May God be a wall of fire all around you to cleanse you, fill you, surround you, and deliver you.
May great grace be upon you, in Jesus name.
Crave the fire and presence of God with all your heart. Crave spiritual gifts.
It is the fullness of the presence of God in and around you that protects you and crushes every sickness, curse and all your enemies.
The Holy Spirit constantly tells me that He wants passion-passion for His presence. You must be hungry for the power and grace of God in order to enjoy it.
Passion, thirst, hunger, need and desire are mandatory for attracting God's presence and glory.
If you do not ask, you will not receive.
The biggest mistake believers make is to depend on the flesh.
If you notice that you keep praying but never ask for the fullness of the presence of God or the full baptism of the Holy Spirit, you are praying amiss.
You are praying backwards. You are depending on your flesh. You are fighting with your flesh.
Your flesh cannot win a spiritual battle.
Romans 8 verse 8 says that those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
John 6 verse 63 says, it is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh profits nothing.
Of yourself you can do nothing. Man's power is of no use at all.
Sicknesses and demons are only afraid of the fire and presence of God.
If you carry God’s fire, demons will be tormented by the fire of God that you are carrying, and they will flee.
Jesus is the presence and power of God. Jesus is all you need.
Moses knew what he was saying when he said in Exodus 33 verse 15, if Your presence does not go with us, we will not leave this place.
He understood his absolute need and dependence on God. Numbers 12 verse 3 records that Moses was the humblest man on earth in his days.
Jesus said in Matthew 11 verse 29, learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart.
Luke 5 verse 16 says that Jesus often withdrew into the wilderness and prayed.
Jesus constantly went to lonely places at intervals during the day to renew the presence and fire of God. That was the secret to His success.
He knew how to walk in the Spirit and with the Holy Spirit. He knew how to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit and follow Him.
It is the truth you know that sets you free.
Hosea 4 verse 6 says, my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.
If you ignore the Holy Spirit and keep fighting spiritual battles with your flesh, you will be very weak spiritually, because you lack spiritual food.
The presence of God is the spiritual food you need. The word of God is the spiritual food for your mind and soul.
It is the word of God that convicts and convinces you to seek the presence of God at intervals every day.
You must be filled and overflowing with the Word of God before you can be filled and overflowing with the glory, fire, and presence of God.
The ultimate quest is the presence and fire of God. The presence of God is what gives you unlimited results and great victory.
Fight! Pay the price!
Pray aggressively and persistently, because it is the spiritually violent and aggressive that experience the presence of God by force.
Let absolute desire and need for the presence of God take over your mind. This is how to walk in the reality of the fullness of truth that sets you free.
Jesus died so that you can constantly taste and enjoy the fullness, power, fire and presence of God.
Jesus has given you the keys to the presence of God.
Do not waste the grace of God by depending on your own flesh to crush demons and evil. Only the presence, power and fire of God can crush evil.
Ask. Ask for the fire of God.
James 4 verse 2 says, you do not have because you do not ask.
Constantly ask for the full baptism of the Holy Spirit and renew the presence of God daily.
If you do not ask, you will not receive.
May the fire of God fill you, surround you, and consume the roots of your problems.
May God's presence come upon you and transform you from glory to glory into the highest dimensions of His power and glory, in Jesus name, amen.
