It is good for us to always improve ourselves as we follow God’s will. What you attract is a reflection of who you are. If you refuse to learn and grow in life especially in the will and word of God, you will attract broken people and abusers who will not hesitate to exploit you and take advantage of you.
If you are vulnerable, people always notice and they will use your vulnerability against you. Pray to God for protection and inner strength. Improve yourself. Do not be desperate and you will see that a change in mentality and disposition is all you need to get rid of and avoid the wrong people.
Abusers, time wasters and exploiters will not be able to get hold of your mind and spirit.