The secret of the LORD is with them that fear him; and he will show them his covenant. Psalm 25:14
Just as everyone has secrets, God also has secrets. There are some secret keys to His glorious heart. Some translations say the friendship of the Lord is with those who fear Him. Secrets are given to friends not acquaintances or enemies. A secret given to the wrong person can destroy. Remember Samson. Judas knew the secrets about Jesus’s movements and led His enemies to Him.
In relationships, it is the ability of a spouse to master the key and ways into the beloveds heart that will determine their ability to please the beloved. If you focus on selfishness and your desires, you ruin it all. If you focus on your partners needs and desires, you will please them and if they focus on your needs and desires, they will please you in return.
Let’s face it – we all have needs and desires that we cannot fulfil and satisfy by ourselves. The need for companionship comes along with being human and if you are in a relationship and is being isolated and you feel isolated, then something is wrong. In a good relationship, we should feel loved, safe and cherished.
In our relationship with God, God wants to feel loved and appreciated. He created us for love, fellowship and companionship with Himself and others. If we prove ourselves to be selfish and incapable of giving and receiving love then we have defeated the purpose of our creation – we become useless to God and our fellow men. Life is about purpose.
Man has the capacity to turn Himself into a nuisance to God and His fellow men. May we never turn ourselves into nuisances to God and men.
We must seek the keys to God’s heart. We need to prove ourselves as people capable of love and companionship. Other men should feel safe around us.
If you are a man and other men feel scared of leaving their wives, daughters and sisters in your presence, something is wrong. If those men feel that you will exploit them sexually then you have turned yourself into a nuisance.
If you are a woman who keeps gossiping and is not capable of being faithful to any man, you have turned yourself into a nuisance.
The list is endless – if you are reckless and can cause all sorts of damage to others just to please and satisfy yourself, then you have turned yourself into a nuisance. You have defeated the purpose of your creation. We were created to love God and other humans. We should make effort to make others happy. Put a smile on someone else’s face not exploit, cheat and steal from them.
If we fear, love and cherish the Lord, He will give us the direct keys to His heart. He will teach us His secrets and covenants in such a way that pleasing Him becomes a delight. When we get to the place where our food is to do His will and finish His work, then we can truly say that we are victorious
My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. John 4:34
When Jesus said ’food’, He meant His passion, desire, pleasure, will, joy, love, dream is to do the will of God. It gave Him great joy and happiness to please His father. He was a perfect lover of God. With God only love will do, nothing else matters but love.
Love is all that matters in life, we must become great lovers of God and men instead of nuisances.